Category Archives: Family
Scapegoating
Scapegoating is a behavior with a long history. In ancient times a scapegoat was an animal chosen by the tribe to be sacrificed to expedite the tribe’s “sins”. Historical examples of scapegoating include: the medieval Spanish Inquisition and the burning of witches; in modern times, the actions of the German Nazi party, the American Klu Klux Klan, and the McCarthy hearings.
And Aaron shall cast lots upon the two goats one lot for the Lord and the other lot for the scapegoat
Leviticus 16:9-12
On a smaller scale, a child or student can be singled out for being different in … Read the rest
5 Relationship Rescue Remedies
From this day forward,
You shall not walk alone.
My heart will be your shelter,
And my arms will be your homeAnonymous
Keeping a committed relationship alive and flourishing is an art form. Once the first blush of attraction (and lust) has faded, learning to accommodate the natural tedium and predictability of an established partnership often requires some basic refresher points. Here are five rescue remedies to keep the spark alive.
1. Be Kind. Don’t underestimate the power of simply being kind. John Gottman, a psychology professor at the University of Washington, has researched the ratio of … Read the rest
Be of Good Cheer: How to Survive the Holidays
The holiday season brings hopes and expectations of a happy, warm, loving family experience. From the end of October until the end of December we are immersed in the theme of seasonal joy and family togetherness. Movies, TV shows, and music all act in concert to reinforce this theme.
Fantasy vs. Reality
With so many messages perpetuating this idealized notion of the holidays, it’s no wonder that many of us find ourselves hoping that those dreams will come true. Childhood fantasies of kind parents and understanding families can be re-awakened, often without our even noticing.
But the … Read the rest
